My problem is very common problem but still i dont knw wat to do. I love my friend(she) and i told this to her also but she refuses, she only want my friendship. I love her like crazy but she dont care about this at all. She is very close to me and i can't live without her. Now a days she is ignoring me like hell. before we use to text and call each other in every hour, but now she is not replying me at all. And i checked her facebook account, she is talking to one guy so oftenly that i am so jealous. I dont knw what to do now to get her back. I am so depressed.
I've been their mate. the classic example of "nice guys finish last".
It is a horrible place to be, the friendzone.
The best advice that i can give you is to play her at her own game, back off for a bit, then return to your friendship status, and then see if she shows signs of jealousy when you talk to her about another girl. even if you have to make one up. At least then you'll know if she has any feelings for you.
But remember you can force her to love you, You may have to prepare yourself to move on. Which is exactly what i did. Then one day when i was no longer interested, it turned out she wanted me. Theres always hope.
well according to me just give ur fren a litl tym to realise dat the place wch u have in her lyf can not be taken by any oder guy bcz u ppl understand each oder mch btr than any oder newcomer in her lyf, the day she wud realise ur importance she will not only accept u bt also ur proposal of love. jst leave her alone fr smtime and be patient. true love will win. all the best.
that guy proposed her for marriage and she said yes to him.
I hv no idea whr to go and wat to do. she said you r a gud frnd of mine and be like this always, she dont want to break our frndshp. I decided not to talk to her any more. Is i m doing rite thing???
Spark,lets get out a hanky blow our noses after a good cry and hardcore blue movie. It's what mates in Aussie do with a barbie and a few shrimps and a frostie cold beer and pat each other on the back and cheering each other on thier new found freedom and they stick up for each other, you know what we in aussie call the battlers or once we were warriors. Women you can't live without them or live with them but what we do have is in what we call mates, good on ya mate with thier nostrils sprawled like a good fuck. Look have a good fuck with another woman and teach her a lesson in aussie slang the venacular of don't let the door hit your ass on the way out.
To get her back would imply that you've once had her but you only mentioned that you both were friends (good friends) so she was never really yours. I've had guy friends who've only been ''friends' but liked me in a different way an I always knew i wouldn't ever be with them and they were only friends. Heartbreak is the hardest thing to go threw but getting out of the denial faze and moving foward, getting out there, meeting new people will help you get over her alot faster.
And no do not talk to her, delete her out of your life for now.. you can always re-friend her when you're over her but keeping her around will make it 10x worse.
JESS thanx for rplng. Its realy hard to get over it, i tried not to remember her but every time my heart and head take me to that side and thn its hurts a lot.
Anyway i hv to go through it, dont hv any option....