It’s a total misunderstanding. The rules of game proved that IVF treatment isn’t efficient in my case. My pregnancy stops during the first week after confirmation. 6 rounds of my past treatment showed us well that it was useless.
You know what it can bring to woman’s life. It’s a full disappointment, pain and loss of faith. I’m frustrated absolutely more than ever.
We already spent a lot of years in trying to conceive and what? My husband suggests to give up. We began discussing a possibility of adoption. I can’t believe he knew well what I thought on that.
We could try surrogacy for example, why not? Hundreds of people do it without any fear and consequences. It’s a desperation between us. I said it would be very good to try a new experience and continue our struggle.
He always seemed like the one who wants to become parent. I am not so sure now looking at him. His desire vanished without trace.
His argument is that it’s too expensive and we can’t afford surrogacy at least next 3 years. It was quite a reasonable statement but I know he knows where to find money.
Besides that, surrogacy costs less in Ukraine and Georgia. We don’t speak to each other for the last 8 days.
I need his support and trust. We can do it only now while we’re pretty young for that. Guys! How to draw his attention? How to start conversation to convince him?
I have read your other post and it really touched my heart. I totally understand you. I think the surrogacy or adoption can be a solution.
Try the former first. I am a women ( this is my opinion ) and while I am writting this post a man is sitting next to me thinking the same. The most important thing is the communication between you. Aks him about his feelings, fears because maybe he has a lot. His opinion is just as valuable as yours. Do everything you can, literally every option, until there is no other.
Please write me back , I am curious what about You.
Take care of yourself.