That might sound like your average teenage worry but there have recently been these moments where I'm holding her like she's my everything or telling her she's amazing and she just doesn't understand... I keep acting like everything is fine and we're just friends, sleeping over at her place is a common occurrence too but I can't bring myself to speak up because as the title says, if i ruin it and loose her life is going to get a lot more bland and grey.
And now for the cherry on top she is also the ex of one of my close friends and they broke up 3.5 months ago, and it hurts so much to see her still long for him when he's already seeing a new girl.
I just want to hold her and keep her safe and make sure that she knows what an incredible person she is and that i would always be there for her but I'm also terrified of destroying the relationship with both of them(obviously her more than him) in the process.
When you say you sleep over her place do you have sex with her? if true this is positive sign she considers you as more than a platonic friend already. on the negative side for her, i am fairly confident her ex is aware of the sleep overs dulling possibility of their romance rekindling. surprised MS.S doesn't recognize this.
I have deliberated greatly and decided to ask her out to lunch later this week and she has agreed, we will be going to a Mexican place she used to visit when she was younger, i figure its a safe space for her and a good chance for me to get to know more about her. Unfortunately I have been avoiding relationships for some time now and I'm not entirely sure how to bring up the topic of my romantic emotions for her without being too serious or reminding her of her past relationships.
Thank you for the advice and i hope you will assist me further as i really don't want to mess this up.
Just be honest and manly with her about your feelings. How does her ex's differ from you physically and personality wise? Understand how he keeps her hot for him will help you understand type of guy she wants in her future. I have a feeling he is more physically and emotionally demanding with her than you are. Understanding her turn ons will benefit your journey to be her # 1
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