Crushes

So ok I have a crush and I don’t know if I should ask her out. I’m a shy person but I could probably ask her out.Problem is I think she’s has a crush on someone else at work.We talk sometimes and it seems as if she’s likes me.I just don’t know what to do. HELP!!!

Just ask her for lunch or coffee after work. You will know right away if she wants more than just a work-friend thing with you. Don’t become her gossip buddy or problem solver if you want more than that from her. Date others if you get the feeling she is going to use you as a BF. That’s not what you want.