Just a relationship problem
Since this is my first time posting on here, I should introduce myself. My name is Landon, but of course I go by JustAGinger. I am male, and I suffer from mild Asperger's syndrome. That's all the personal information I am willing to give out at this time.
Recently, my significant other and I got into an argument on something that happened not too long ago. You see, we were talking all coupley and such, when I tried making a romantic move and removed her hoodie. However, I must have pulled too hard, as she stormed off and she later texted me telling me I had ripped out some of her hair and that she no longer wishes to see me. Of course, I didn't mean to do this. As someone with even mild Asperger's, it is difficult for me to understand my own strength. My girlfriend is hypersensitive. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Also, I don't know that this affects anything, but she is also diagnosed with clinical depression, but she deals with it quite well.
How long have you been together? It sounds like the relationship is new by the way she reacted. I think people try to find any excuse they can to stop seeing someone if they really don’t have feelings for them. Or maybe she does have feelings and was just a bit turned off and hurt by what happened and felt a bit unsatisfied with your apology (I assume you apologised)? Your post is a bit vague so my answer is vague as well I’m sorry!
We've been together for three months at least. We had a happy, healthy relationship, and yes, I apologized many times over.
Sorry for the confusion. I'll try to be less vague in future posts.