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I have been with my partner for nine years and I love her so much. We have been each other’s rock through every year. When we first got together I said to her time and time again I have had the snip I won’t be able to give u children. Which every reply was I know it’s all good. Well nine years on she wants children. She has started drinking more. We have been arguing more. I don’t know what to do. I love her so much I don’t want to loose her but I want her to be happy too. she can have what every woman wants a baby. Which will make her happy so is it best to let her go. It’s so heart braking. Help please.

Relationship disaster

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What about IVF or adoption?

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If she’s drinking more and you are arguing more, that’s no time for a pregnancy, is it? Is something else happening? Her friends having babies? Both of you knew what the conditions were for pregnancy, and now she uses that as a source of conflict. Not fair to you. That must cut you deep. But pushing her away is not the solution. She may be depressed or hormones are out of whack. A complete physical for both of you is in order. Go to couples counseling and find out what’s going on with your relationship. There are many parenting options available now - including reversing your “snip” so find out what’s going on.

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