How can I get rid of this jealous feeling, and stop feeling like a bad friend?
I'm 16, 11th grade. OK, there's a girl I've liked since like 9th grade. I asked her out and she said no, so I was like "alright fine whatever, your loss". Then I see her with one of my good friends I've known long time (since like 1st grade), and got super jealous. For some reason I kept picturing him banging her after prom (and her moaning at him) whenever I'd see them, because when I was 9th grade some seniors from my baseball team told me prom was just a misspelling of porn, and everyone bangs afterwards, and it gave me a headache whenever I'd see them, so I basically just avoided them so I wouldn't end up doing something dumb. I wanted to swoon her over so bad, but I can't do that to my friend, and I feel like such a bad friend because of it. Not to mention she already said no anyway, so why am I getting so damn jealous for?
Well .... you are 16 and emotions are extreme and sexual thoughts are frequent. That’s just something you need to realize. No problem. Perfectly normal.
Nevertheless, to fantasize about a girl and a guy “banging” after prom is doing you no good. So stop listening to guy talk that disrespects women.
The solution? Find yourself another lady. But only after you can approach a gal with self control. A nice lady will expect that.