I'm divorced and live in a large village, I work shifts so have a lot of free time and do a lot of jobs for old people for free one of the people has a single daughter 15 years younger than me who I also did jobs for. For ten years we got on very well together just has friends, about four years ago she got pregnant and the father disappeared I helped her though the pregnancy and have been there for her and the baby ever since. I have gone to hers maybe 6 days a week to help her and with the baby we talk on phone every night and send hundreds of text each month and go out everywhere together, I have got on with her better than anyone else I know.
Now my question about three weeks ago we texted as normal at night but the next day nothing she won't speak on the phone has sent five texts in three weeks Why? What's peoples thoughts on why she would change so much so quick?
My guess is maybe the " Baby Daddy is back" or she might be communicating with someone else. Why not ask her what's up
It won't be the dad come back and if it was I would hope after all I've done she would tell me. I've tried asking but she won't speak to me, but she needed a plumber and texted me to get her one.
You wont get to the bottom of this until u communicate with her. Its hard to say why she is behaving this way without knowing what exactly may have gone wrong. Please speak to her
Thank you for your replies, Lizzle20 I would love to speak to her but she won't she sent 27 texts one night which is normal for us then only 3 in the next 5 days I saw her in the street and she spoke fine but wouldn't tell me anything. I've known her for 14 years but only close friends for the last 4 after she became pregnant and this is so unlike her.
One other thing that makes things even stranger 4 weeks ago she was on he phone to me while driving and went past a house up for sale and said we should sell our 2 and buy it together