I'm sad in my relationship
Hi so I've been dating a guy for around 1.5 years at the beginning everything was just so nice and dreamy but since the last few months things have taken a different turn. We both live in different cities and it takes nearly 2 hours to travel to meet each other so we don't meet that often. But 1st we would talk everyday either through chat or call. But now my bf is too busy to talk to me. Also when I ask him to meet he'll give me some excuse about work. And it annoys me and breaks my heart but I never complain cause I don't want to be a nagging girlfriend. But I feel very lonely and ignored. So I ve decided to ignore him and soon break up. But not a day goes by when I don't think about him. I think about him 24x7 and I'm so sure he doesn't even thinks about me for a sec. And we don't talk anymore. I want to just get over him. I feel like crying. And no one even knows about it. I don't want anyone to judge me or my relationship.
I don’t think you can actually start to get over him until you’ve properly ended things and you start the process of getting over him, confining in family and friends. I bet at the moment it doesn’t feel very real. Are you still hopeful this could still work out?
I understand you want to treat him how he’s treating you, to try make him see sense but it hasn’t worked. He’s distracted.
Also ‘I think about him 24x7 and I'm so sure he doesn't even thinks about me for a sec’ try not to think what he may or may not be thinking coz you don’t know.
So when your ready, call him and talk. You are now allowed to nag and ask what’s going on for your sanity if anything. If he can’t be honest with you or give a good enough reason for treating you like this then it’s not going to work.
:-) (A) Thanks a lot @LILLY31 it felt so good to talk about it. Thankyou for your reply. Will try and make things right :)