All I tend to do is help people, even when they dont want help.
Because I care for them.
But hes a grown man, hes going to have to figure it out on his own, right?
Background: a guy I care about deeply is in trouble. And I always try to help him out. Ive given him money, helped his family out, I do everything for him. Well as much as I can. But he has to be the one to help himself.
I basically just wish someone would tell ne that I just cant help everyone and sometimes I need to just let then figure it out.
Any advice? Am I right?
Theres nothing wrong in helping other people out
Some people are takers and never give back, not even in small little ways, more likely they start to rely on the person. And I think it also becomes frustrating when they don’t try to help themselves.
You can be there emotionally for him but i think since you feel like this, consider stopping financially and tell him.