Hey everyone, just looking for some advice so I've a boyfriend of a few years but he gave his car to his ex gf. He told me she was having car trouble but the thing is she already has a car. Her new partner has a car. Why does she need another one. My partners car needs fixed and is in a garage getting fixed now a few weeks and we are car sharing while she's sitting with 3 cars outside her home. I told my boyfriend I ain't happy with it and no one else would be. His response was ill buy you a car. I don't want a car! Anything he buys me he takes it off me when we fight. Am I over reacting or would anyone else be the same as me?
Yeah I don’t think it’s sounds like a believable story.... few things.
He’s not her bf anymore so why he’s even seeing her and helping her out, and putting her needs first? It doesn’t add up. Sounds like you know this already, coz of your unhappy reaction that you made clear.
You tell him your not happy and he says he’ll buy you a car? That sounds like guilt to me.
He takes things he buys you, off you when you fight ...not nice behaviour there. You don’t give someone something then take it off them. And you’re not a child. You're not over reacting.