So a little back round about my relationship with my ex girlfriend. we were together for just over two years. we started to hit trouble around 4 months before we broke up. She started to become distant and not very attracted to me. I became needy and desperate so the nasty sickle started. She eventually decided to break up with me. i didnt handle this very well and did the typical begging and pleading.About a month has passed since we broke up and have had a proper conversation. she text me two days ago out of the blue to how i was and we had a short conversation before i ended it. today i decided to text her again. we had another good chat she seemed in good spirits. That was until she told me about her future plans of going travelling next year and going on a short holiday this year overseas. this obviously sent me into full panic mode. But it was interesting because she seemed to really make a point about her future plans. Its like she couldn't wait to tell me. was she testing me?
Now obviously im panicking because i want her back. Is there still a chance ?
There is always a chance. However instead of wanting her back learn to grow into a person she and other women would love to have (back)
I personally would whish her good luck on her trip and maybe you both grow and make experiences you need to make. And eventually when she gets back you will drink a glass of wine (or whatever you both like) and exchange yourself.
If you truely love her be concerned with her wellbeing. Make sure she does fine overseas. And don't nag and needy. Don't pull her.