Is he really worth it?
I've been having a lot of relationship problems lately. I am a senior in high school and will soon be going off to college. Due to some family problems, I've been living with my boyfriend for the past few months. I really love my boyfriend, and have been with him for about four years now. Even though I love him, I'm not sure if I can stand the way he is. He wants to have sex 2-3 times a day (not a shock) but he doesn't seem to understand the word no. He will joke around and bug me into it, or he will pout and get mad. I have two jobs, am a full time student, and a cheerleader. He comes to none of my games to support me and it really hurts me. He went to one and I was so happy, but still didn't go to anymore or any special award ceremonies. His dad pays for our house and utilities, and he has no job. He insists that he will find one once he is out of school, but I find myself growing aggrivated and yelling at hhim because I am constantly working and he does nothing. He insists that I ishould be grateful that he let's me live in his house, and I am, but it bugs me whewhen he says this because his dad pays for everything except groceries and items for the house, which he gives my bf some money for, but I usually end up paying a lot of it. The worst problem, though, is the drugs. I am 100% against any type of drugs, and he is a frequent weed/spice smoker. He has cut back, but he knows it hurts me and constantly is "trying to quit". I just hate tghat that is a part of my life. I get very upset over it everytime. I've tried to just accept it, but he lies to me about it, and that bugs me very much. Last night, one of his friends came over and had weed. He insisted that they would sit on the porch and talk and he would not smoke. I had tol get up at six to work, and they were so loud at four that they woke me up and kept me up. I got so mad that I went out there. I could smell from the bedroom that they were smoking in the house. I told them to shut the fuck up and locked the bedroom door. I love my boyfriend so much, but idk if this is worth it. I'm tempted to go to college and just be alone.
He is not being a man. A man pays his own bills. At least tries. I would open an account or have a secret spot to hide money. Just think anything times fifty-two and make wine year date to move out.Save, save, save and get the heck out. You can stay together if you wish, but then you won't be used for your money and girl parts. As far as the weed thing. You are over reacting. It's not a drug. It is safer than any Otc drug. If you hate drugs then I assume also dislike Otc, which are far more harmful. Also, don't buy anymore groceries. If you do buy things he hates so he won't eat it. He is a little boy being enabled by you and his parents. This will not change unless someone makes it change. People will only treat you how you allow. Do not allow his childish behavior to control your actions. Good Luck in all you do!!!!
look if one day his father refuses to pay money how can he live without knowing how to earn money,but if he really loves you im sure everything will be ok.