Hi, this isn’t a big deal. Just something that has been bugging me. I went out with some friends the other night and met this girl. Now I don’t want to sound like a wet lettuce, I meet girls all the time, but for no reason I can place this one seemed special. Like massive attraction or something. We had a great night and exchanged numbers. I texted her the next day and it went back and forth until she went to bed.
The next day I was feeling impulsive and asked her if she wanted to see a film with me. I couple hours later she replied saying sorry but she has to say no. She’s moving to uni in a few weeks and with the stress and how busy she is, doesn’t have the time to go out. She said she had a really nice night and hopes we see eachother again. This is all fair enough. I understand completely and have no problem with it. Even if it is that she just isn’t that interested; I’m okay with that. After I replied saying it’s completely fine and she has nothing to be sorry for, and that I hope I see her again too, I sent another text. I said ‘I know it’s probably strange for me to ask given we have only met once, but would you like to stay in touch as friends? You seem like someone I want to keep in touch with.’
I suppose my question is, is that an okay thing to do? I feel it is personally. But she didn’t reply. It’s not something I’d usually ask a girl, but something about her seemed special and I didn’t want to not ask the question and regret it. I’m probably babbling I’m half asleep lmao
Thank you for reading