We got engaged a couple of months back, then I discovered he is seeing others behind my back. He claimed it is work related, but the smse shows a different story.
My problem is, I find it hard to leave him. Even now I told him I am done. I need to know how to go about it as I always take him back.
The pickings are slim for women that age to find a “ baggage tolerable” guy, but this one is off the chart.
Really? He calls you stupid?
Break this off and think about what kind of man you want for companionship as you enter a great time of your life. Girlfriends help out, do you have a group you run with of women your age?
It is just so overwhelming, you know. I dont know why he changes like this. Then he is a different person. he claims it is workstress, but I do not know. I moved in with him and the very same minute he was chatting up another. I phoned all those girls. They never knew we were engaged let alone together. He told them he was single. The next day while he was at work, I moved out. So now, he wont let me go. And now, I am given the usual SILENT TREATMENT for days again