Girlfriend of married man pregnant
Good day. My 30 year old girlfriend is 1and a half months pregnant with our child. She already has 2 other childern aged 10 and 6 years. She was engaged to the father of the 6 year-old when we met. She staus with her parents but has a full-time job. I am a married man. My wife does not know about any of this. My girlfriend is thinking of an abortion. She believes her father will be disappointed and will disown her
I don't agree but I'm not pushing. I love her very much. Please advise.
You wife will inevitably find out so you may as well come clean, especially if you have the baby. These things don't stay a secret for long. If you love this girl very much then why are staying with your wife?
I value and respect your view. My loving this lady takes nothing to my loving my wife. The child is not born yet but I don't want to decide for the child to live or die. I would rather face my consequences instead.
Well these sort of secrets have a habit og coming out. I dont agree with cheaters so therefore I am sickened by your behavior. If there is a child involved you will have to pay for it and you will HAVE to explain that to your wife, whether you want to or not.
You should man up and take full responsibility for betraying your marriage and having unprotective sex with a woman outside your marriage; which has now produced an unborn child that may be aborted. Why should this unborn child lose its life because of you and your girlfriend reckless behavior?
It's your conscious that you will have to live with. My vote -save the baby.