Need some good advice
I've been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now and apart of me wants to be single and see other men. The relationship has become pretty stale from my point of view and I don't think he thinks the same and I'm always making an excuse for when it's time to get intimate. He's never been violent or anything towards me and I've never been violent to him but I'm finding myself going to bed early before him just to be myself... I don't think I find my partner physically attractive anymore but he's such a sweet guy and everyone loves him including my friends and family which makes it even more harder as they keep banging on about how he's the best thing that's happened to me. We share a house together and both have pretty decent jobs but if I end the relationship I would have to move an hour away back to my parents house and would probably have to leave my job and find a new one back in my hometown as it would be hard for me to get to my current job as I don't own a car.
So when did you start having these feeling that he “wasn’t the same” and you lost sexual interest?
Is someone else turning your eye?
Can't you stay in the house until you can afford your own place? That way you wouldn't have to move away and give up your job. You always have options. Don't stay and string the poor guy along if you don't want to be with him. That's just not fair. Also, don't let others who really like him influence you. It's not about them.