He had a problem from day one that I have male friends one of whom is married and one an ex guy from 9 years ago – my ex’s new girlfriend and I are actually more friends than me and him.
I asked all my friends to respect my decision and stand aside. Unfortunately, one evening my married friend contacted me, as usual, I am still being criticised for this.
After we broke up he came back and we basically saw each other for the last 2 months. Of course, I started to reconnect with my friends and once again he had a very big problem with it.
About a week back decided it was not going to work for him and rather let me go.
His opinion is as follows: I have no place for a man in my life and that I have enough men in my life - Married or not, it doesn't bother me.
He has a problem with a married friend I know for 20 years of my life. When he and his wife leave, I look after their home. Yes I do not agree with the fact that he who is married goes out alone and terribly kills him about it. I also know his actions are not my responsibility. But it is a platonic friend and after my old decision he was never going to approve it and step out of my life I went on a Friday night to a place where the friend, another friend (single and also A friend) for 5 years with one of our girlfriends at a place I went to.
The next day my “ex” guy tells me he misses me and comes to visit. He asked me where I was the night before and really knew if I was going to tell him it was trouble from scratch.
But after the 2nd or 3rd time I told him and just as I suspected it caused trouble. He now blocks me and wants nothing more to do with me.
I know no angel. But in the 5 months we went out, I gave no reason to ever be suspicious. I moved my friends aside because I saw something in the relationship that I wanted to look after with everything in me.
When we broke up, I realized that my friends are already a lifetime in my life and no one is allowed to take them away from me. Although I also know that when you are in a relationship, friends also have to go a little and naturally you actually die your single life.
I want to know if my ex is right to act like this.