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Relationship advice I've been dating this guy for a couple months now and in the past two weeks I've been working non-stop. I'm working nearly 12 hours a day everyday as I'm trying to save up money to go to University. He says that I need to try and sort something out with my work this week so I can have a day off and meet up with him (as we live apart). I just feel a bit disappointed and shocked that he expects me to drop everything to see him even though I have a couple of days off the following week. I just feel that this is a massive red flag and another thing that worries me is that he's hiding me from everyone, his parents, friends etc.

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You're the one doing the hours and you're the one who makes the decision when to have a break, & not your BF of 2 months. If he's hiding you, then do something about it because if he's proud to be with you, he should have you on his arm beside him. 2 months is basically nothing in relationship sense, and it's your gut that's talking to you and raising an early red flag and it's your values which are questioning your BF's actions and demands.

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Hello,

As a red flag, yes it is.

This shows that he needs some control and he's basically poking you and pushing to see how far he can control.

Stand your ground, you have a goal. He should understand that, if he doesn't then he just doesn't deserve you.

Good luck!

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It really sounds like he wants more time with you so he can develop this relationship. Two months is not long enough, especially if much of it is not able to happen due to your work hours.

Really, he hardly knows you!

People will move heaven and earth to be with each other at love’s early blossom. Perhaps you aren’t that much into it all.

Your priority is set in your mind. Let him go if you can’t pay attention to the relationship - before he makes that decision.



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