What would you do?
J111 - Jun 20 2020 at 05:30
Hi all, I was dating a guy who had left his wife. He moved out for a year and half. We dated off and on during that time. We started dating again then I found out he was thinking about going back to his wife and when I asked him about it he stated that he didn't feel he gave his wife/marriage every chance. He wants to make sure he has tried everything but was not sure it was going to work. I told him I can respect that but thought he should of told me instead having to find out through a mutual friend. He has moved home for about 3 months and is wearing his wedding ring. He texts kissy emojs to me. He checks in to see that I'm ok. He tells me he loves to see me smile. He has two kids and he originally said he was not sure if it was going to workout but wanted to give it his all. I am confused..does he want his cake and eat it too? What do you thing?
Just move on from this guy because if he had you, and only you, you wouldn't be the 'other' woman. The guy's gone back to his wife and children, and his actions are doing the talking and for your own sanity, you need to do walk away and block him from your phone as well. It's all good that he feels he has unfinished business with his marriage, but while he continues to wear a wedding ring and is 'with' his wife and family, he has no right to be involved with you for whatever the reason.
The fact that you found out about him returning to his marriage from someone else, after dating him on/off for a year and a half, should tell you exactly where you stand with him.
You deserve a guy who puts you on a pedestal, has no baggage to sort, and who respects and loves you and only you.
Thank you! I wish it was as easy as blocking his number. We don't work for the same company but have to interact for work.