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Relationship advice Hello. To sum up - I'm a 31 years old woman. I stepped up 2 years ago and started to transform my body as I was heavily overweight. I lost almost 40kg,eat clean now and exercise 4x/week.

I've never had confidence before, fat and ugly and probably that's why I have never been in a relationship. I was sure that when I'll look better, everything will be nice and shiny, men will be attracted to me and I will be happy. It just never happened.

I look quite ok-ish now, can wear a lot of clothes which I couldn't before as normal sizes didn't fit me. I have a job I love and i meet a lot of people either via online apps or just in the gym or parties. So I'm definitely not only sitting at home waiting for the

What am I doing wrong?

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Hi,

You’ve changed your physical appearance body eating and working out etc, that was the first big step and you've stuck with it and achieved it, well done :-). And its that you’re being sociable and going to parties.

Look at changing your self esteem and confidence as your next challenge. if you have a negative opinion of yourself still, it’s is going to show. Look at how you talk to your self inside your head, is it all negative? Do you say anything nice about yourself to yourself?

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