My husband works as a sales rep. I have always supported him and been there for him when he as talked about his work or going after new jobs. I've felt I have never had any support from him at all in anything I do. Recently he went out at 730am and got home 7pm at night. I knew he had to go and fix a water pump and he said the night before he would be home early in the day he was fixing it. I was assuming he would be home around 4 or 5 and we would go out for a walk. He had been texting me earlier in the day but did not mention he would have to go and fix another water pump and might be home late. I had stayed in all day, I had been feeling tired and thought I would have a walk later on when he got home little did I realise that I wouldn't. I received a text at 5pm to say he wouldn't be home til alot later, I said ok but I was hurt inside because he could of let me known earlier on. He said he didn't know he would be that long fixing the 2nd water pump and I said he could of at least texted to say what was happening. He as two phones, one work phone and another for private use. I said he must of been checking his work phone incase anyone contacted him. I don't know if he had it on him or left it in the car but he must of stopped now and then to check it and he could of texted me on his works phone. I felt he had just not gave a damn about me. He said he didn't know what I would be like when he got back home with him. I have accused him of cheating on me in the past and he might of thought I would think he was cheating again. I found 10 dating sites on his phone history a couple of months ago but he denies he was on them and said they were pop ups. He as looked at porn for years even when I told him to stop and I was thinking maybe he as been looking again that's why if they were pop ups it's because of that.
He denies he was out cheating and always says he always wants me but why have dating sites on his phone or pop ups as he said if I'm all he wants. I wanted him just to respect me and I feel he puts his job before me and I wanted him to just consider my feelings and a little text wouldn't of killed him. Now we aren't talking and I have no o e to talk to about all this.
How many 12 hour work days is he doing now?
He did call you, yet you chose to not go on your walk by yourself. Why not?
Consider seeking counseling for yourself to be able to talk to someone about all this before it makes you sick.
This is Wilka,
He did not ring me he sent a text message. He normally works anything from 9 til 5 or if he as to get out really early 630 and will get back around 5 but he as been out from 7 til 9 at night 3 times in the past. He said he was stuck in traffic but I don't know if he is telling me the truth