Help with people i like
currently i have a fwb who i dated for three years in high school but broke up with. but i’m in love with a guy i worked with two years ago who now has a girlfriend but texts me every day. another guy who i like asked me on a trip a tropical country and i am going with him. i don’t know what do or who to talk to or if i should just not talk to any of them.
Sounds to me like you need to take a big step back, and try to be ok by yourself for a bit. FWB doesn't help you out at all. Obviously you need to leave the guy alone that already has a gf. And I can pretty much guarantee you, that the guy who wants to take you on vacation is hoping to get laid.
If you're not careful, you are going to develop a reputation that will be hard to get away from.
I would invite you to consider what internal stories you tell yourself, about your own worth as a woman. Read "love yourself as if your life depended on it", I give it to my clients - I'm a relationship and results coach. at the end, the question is, what do you really want?