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Guy I’ve alway liked tried to kiss me but I have a bf now

The guy I totally fancied years ago ended up trying to kiss me even though he knows I have a boyfriend now. We were together for the first time in months because he is now best friends with my friends boyfriend so we sometimes bump into each other at their house. I thought we were all just having a good laugh together and enjoyed the fact we were like good friends. I wasn’t expecting it at all as we were all just slowly falling asleep on the couch after a few drinks. My reaction at the time was just “I can’t” and then none of us said anything else and went to sleep. The morning was pretty normal and we all had a laugh again. Nobody seen it and none of us have brought it up but now I can’t stop thinking about it and if he was just drunk or what it meant. I’m also meant to be moving in with my boyfriend next month so this has really threw me and I feel like I shouldn’t be this curious. I don’t know who to speak to or what to do if anything!! My imagination is running wild but I think it’s just cause of who it was, the timing and that when he woke he said he wasn’t drunk the night before. From what I’ve heard he doesn’t usually get with girls either so I’m mega confused.

Guy I’ve alway liked tried to kiss me but I have a bf now

Not to be to harsh to your guy friend, but he sounds like a p.o.s. A guy that would knowingly try to kiss a girl who is "taken", has severe moral issues and shouldn't be trusted. I'm assuming things have been going good with your current bf, or you wouldn't be moving in with him. So under that belief, I would recommend you stick with the guy that has treated you right, and not go after the guy that tried to get you to cheat. Also some more "food for thought" if you did decide to go after the guy friend and dump your bf, you would then be tied to a guy that has no problem with cheating. Not the best person to be in a relationship with.

Guy I’ve alway liked tried to kiss me but I have a bf now

In my personal opinion I think it is so wrong for a a guy to do that to another guy, et alone someone who is bestfriends with the person. I think you need to really discuss this with that guy and tell him you are taken and to please respect it. If he can NOT respect your request you than will have no choice to bring this up to your BF. I hope that this helped in anyway possible. Good Luck & Stay Safe & Healthy!!! Thank You, Alex

Guy I’ve alway liked tried to kiss me but I have a bf now

You put yourself in a dangerous situation. That shows you are not ready to move in with any guy. You might want to take a breather and just spend some time by yourself.

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