I am a married woman married for 16 years and have a 15 year old son. I am madly in love with a guy who is 9 years younger than me. He is a divorcee. We happened to become friends and now madly in love with each other. We want to live together but cannot because I cannot leave my family either. Please advice.
From my point of advice,you should forgot that person because if you go with that person you should divorce with your husband and if you do this,than this will directly affect your family as well as your 15 year old son. So please be happy with you family and live with them and please forgot that person because anybody beyond our family are just like tha passing cloud ok. And don't do such things which will imapct you in your future life. So be happy and be safe and enjoy your life with your current family.
Maybe divorce your husband first before jumping into major decisions such as moving in with another person.
Also, consider your son. Maybe do family counseling for all of you for better understanding and support
Destroying your family simply because you are excited about creating a new relationship is a horrible idea. Walk away from the new guy, in a hurry.