How do I find men to have sex with without going on a dating site when
you don't know any because going on dating sites for sex is dangerous.
it can be dangerous. Though you could ask that you want to get to know them first before doing anything with them.
I am confused that you ask a question or you are giving a open proposal
That's pretty risky. Maybe actually try to develop a meaningful relationship with a man, and then progress it into a sexual thing too.
Or as an alternative, just buy some adult toys and be safe so you don't have to put effort into building a relationship. Idk. Just saying...