NSA or something else?
I’ve recently returned to the UK after living abroad for over 20 years. After leaving an abusive relationship, I was reluctant to get into anything serious, so had a few NSA relationships which worked really well for me.
I decided that’s how I wanted to continue, so looked into the situation here. Disregarding the time wasters, the flashers and the downright disgusting chat and pictures, I met a nice bloke.
We chatted on another platform, got on brilliantly. I can’t have sex unless there’s a connection, albeit only for one or two occasions. He was going to be near where I was, he asked to meet for a lunchtime drink.
It was brilliant, we still got on in person, he was gorgeous, complementary, a gentleman. We sorted out what we both wanted / expected and went our separate ways, with an agreement to meet next weekend.
Since then he’s been in a lot of contact, lots of flirty texts as before. The problem is now we’re becoming friends, which is making it hard not to fall for him, should I stop before it goes any further; or wait and see what happens?
I know this isn’t a major problem, but I wanted to if that’s how NSA relationships were conducted here, if I’m reading more into than is because the NSA’s I’ve had before have never included dates, texts etc
Not sure what you mean. You say there has to be a “ connection” yet you want NSA.
Why don’t you just hire an escort? You could choose from a menu, I’m sure. Then there would be the guarantee of NSA.
Don’t start up something with this guy. He sounds like he does want to explore the possibility of a full relationship. Be honest with him about your intentions.
Are you asking if NSA is different US vs UK?
He may be just excited for the next date, or into flirting/sexting
You could always treat the contact as a tease for yourself for the meet (?)
I wouldn't know anything about the USA but what makes sense, it's just a completely different set up. But you're right, I should use positively. Thank you 😘👍
Thank you for thoughts, NSA is freedom to have the physical relationships that you want,without the day to day issues of a traditional relationship. Getting on and being able to communicate with your sex partner is very important.