Hall pass insanity update

Last week I created an entry under the above title. I explained that my wife of 25+ years wad headed to New Orleans for a three day business trip and she had very casually said she wanted a "Hall Pass" while away. Needless to say, I was floored and as the days passed, rather frigidly I might say, my wife realized I was not a happy guy and she became very attentive and over loving. Not that she isn't that way normally, but it was clear that she was concerned about where my head was at. Well to make a long story short, we had no sex last week or on the weekend and last night she asked me point blank whether I had made any decision on her request for the Hall Pass. I got angry and stupid. I literally told her that if this was so important to her, that she was a grown woman and that the decision was totally hers to make. I left the house an drove around for hours, ignoring all calls on my cell.I got in at 3am, slept on the couch and left before she got up this morning to go to the airport. I have had no communication with her today.Maybe I'm being a jerk about this but I am totally devastated at this point.I absolutely do not know what to expect from her when she gets back.

Hi again! As this is an update, not a new topic in itself, it would easier for advisers if you kept updates to your original, still-live thread only - and better for you, too, to have the evidence on the one evidence table. Could you please copy and paste the above post contents (presume you know how?) into there so that we can all start responding immediately? Thanks, Donovan.

ALL RESPONDENTS, PLEASE SIT ON YOUR HANDS AND WAIT FOR DONOVAN TO TRANSFER THIS OVER INTO HIS FIRST THREAD. THANKS.