Ex GF help and what do you think I should do?
So, my gf broke up with me about two months ago. For the first two weeks I begged and pleaded, and to no avail, nothing good happened. I stopped imitating contact, and the next week she came over for a “late night” saying that that’s all that it was and to think nothing more.
So I went no contact. 3 weeks after no contact, she asked me on two separate occasions if I was dating someone new. I said no Bc I want to be honest. Two weeks after that, she came over to get the rest of her stuff from my apartment Bc I was moving. We ended up having a conversation and she said that she doesn’t want anything with me, that she had no relationship type feelings for me. So I said fine and walked away. When she got home, she sent me a message saying that she cried the whole way home and I asked her why she was upset, and she said she didn’t know.
The next week, she went to a wedding that I was supposed to go to with her for a family member and I sent her a nice message saying how gorgeous she looked and to tell the bride and groom congrats, she responded with thank you I will. That next night after she got back home, she posted a picture of her out, and she never goes out on weekday nights Bc of work, and I had a moment of weakness and asked if she was on a date and she said no. The next day, she blocked me on Instagram, and only on Instagram.
I know I should just leave it alone and give her space, but what do you think I should do? Is she just thinking I’m going to bug her about going out? Or did she block me Bc she doesn’t want to see any of my posts or stories because it bothers her too much? I’m confused and I want her back. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
Drop her. She's playing you. She doesn't want the effort of maintaining a relationship, -but- she wants you on a short leash so she can use you or play with your head.