I love him but he doesn't
I messaged my hubby this
Me : "Muahhhhhh .... Had such a great dream last night ... I had my wedding fixed with some other guy but my secret love for u pushed me to talk to u to marry me and u agreed and i told my parents i'm running away with u and then we got married ... I don't know y but have had these type of dreams alot of times ...
luv u alottt dear ... "
Hubby: Hehehe... Interesting... I think i should rethink of buying you a car... U might not run away :P
Me : Hehe ... Dear i always have dreams in which i was to marry someone else but at last time i back out because i loved u and just wanted to marry u ... And this should give u satisfaction that even in my wildest and weirdest dreams i can't think of being with anyone else ... It's only and only u in my life and dreams ... U are My Dream Man
Hubby: Hehehe... Thats good... I am happy now
Me : Muahhhh ... To my Dream Man
And there was no reply after this message of mine ... I complaint
later that day that u are very unromantic he said no u make up ur
Mind that i'll answer in a specific way and then u get angry and complain.
I was like u could have said something romanticly to me after i showed
U my love so openly but he was like that was the best i could say.
Now plz tell me is he right ??
Honestly this is pretty miniscule to worry about..
I mean, he did say he's happy now, but you didn't have to push for more responses out of him -- what could anyone else really say after that anyway when you convince to them you love them so much, yet dream about marrying him at the last second when you were about to wed someone else?
I think it just made him feel a little insecure or unsure about your feelings for him because it's a little sketchy to hear of your partner about to marry someone else, even though you chose them in the end. Imagine if you were him, and that he was you -- How would you respond?
Anyway, your dreams actually mean something of your subconscious. Try to Google about it and see if there are any descriptions about what it could mean and interpret them yourself.
Or if you want, you can try pulling him aside one night in a romantic setting and tell him how you feel so he'd know how sincere you are, instead of saying it after a dream like that.
If all else fails, just talk to him about it and see what he has to say about it.
Hello !! we had arrange marriage but i liked him before marriage and i told him that after we got married that i really liked him alot .... so whut in subconsious is this fear that whut had happened if i ever got married to anyone else and i see this in dreams which always ends up happily for me that i finally get married to him .... i show him my love all the time but he's such a cold person that he never try to show me that he care for me ... He know that i'm head over heels in love with him and that's why he's chill that no matter how he treat me i can't live without him ... but i have expectations too ... i need his love too is this something very much i'm demanding??
Oh, so now you're saying he's very cold and not affectionate. Hrm.
I don't know what the dreams could mean, only you could determine that for yourself, really.
I understand the part where he feels he can do whatever he wants since you're so in love with him..
Okay. So what you can do .. is
1. If you're feeling sneaky.. Slowly stop showing any affection or attention to him
It may come to his attention that he's not receiving much of you and may feel neglected, therefore will show you more affection.
2. Talk to him about how he makes you feel, and see if he's willing to work toward making you feel more loved. Find out why he's been so cold and talk to him about it.
You're not receiving the right amount of love, it could be for various reasons, but you are only able to find out the truth by talking about it to him.
That is the best way to find out.
If you want something from your man, don't be afraid to ask him for it! Just be reasonable for why you ask for such things and perhaps he will grant it to you!