Hey everyone! So I have some problems with me and my "gf" relationship. I really like this girl and she likes me (We both admitted to each other over snap), once I asked her if she sees me as her bf and she asked if I saw her as my gf and I said yes and I quote she said "Oh, then I see you as my bf". She's a very open and friendly girl and has a lot of friends. However one of my friends asked her if she is dating anyone and she said no (Btw, this was after I asked if she sees me as her bf). When I heard about this I was confused a little, are we really dating or is she cheating on me or something else.
Key things to know:
She does get flirty sometimes with me
I catch her staring at me quite often
We don't rly talk at school
She talks to this one boy a lot (I'm no sure what there connection is but as I said she's really friendly and open but idk)
That's all, thanks for the help and feel free to ask follow questions!
Ps. All help/advice will truly mean the world to me
Sounds like you're not actually dating to me. Just boy/girl awkward flirting and poor communicating.
Don't consider yourself to be dating. Heck, you guys barely even talk in person and you go to the same school. Put it out of your mind and move on.
I think you should ask her out, maybe because you haven’t asked her directly she doesn’t take it seriously. I still think it’s kinda weird that she said she wasn’t dating..
if you decide to go ask her out don’t do it on Snapchat, it’s way more better directly face to face, you would be able to catch her facial expressions to try to understand her a little bit more, if she is faking it or wtvr, and also it will be a lot more serious than just over the phone. And if it doesn’t work out it’s no big deal!