Am I wrong for feeling hurt?
My friend got into a relationship and didn't tell me. They told others that they have only recently met but kept it a secret from me and we've been friends for years. It kind of hurt that they thought they could tell others but not me and it makes me feel like they don't trust me or that maby we they don't think we're as close as I thought we were. I only found out that they were dating someone through a game too and they are acting like I'm crazy for getting upset... I don't do well with others emotions and often don't know what emotions are appropriate for diffrent situations so I was just wondering if I am wrong for feeling hurt that they didn't want to tell me.
I met a man, thought it *might* work out, wasn't really sure. I introduced him to people whose opinion didn't matter much to me, at first. I didn't introduce him to the people important to me because frankly, I didn't think it was going to work out and didn't want to answer a lot of questions later.
(F)45, I hope I can share my issues here without criticism .I happen to come from a very abusive relationship, my husband was well connected so he got away with most of the law suits. Since I could not use the law, I decided to take things into my own hands. I am so glad I can talk about it now like it is a story. I am still healing and I know I will be fine. So, I continue with my story, I went back to my Village and was introduced to a shaman via my friends and placed a hex on my husband. SO, legally there is nothing the bastard can do about it. I am sharing his contact for all those who are going through the same and worse than I did [e-mail address removed]. I do not know if you would interested in a reading or contacting your wife. I see you must be lonely, a little closure will heal you
Sherlie, your post does not in any way relate to the Op's post. Your post is just spam.
I think Oldmainer might be on the right track. I have a new person I've been dating myself, and I feel awkward about it. I've been slow to introduce them to people, but gradually warming up to it because I guess I want outside feedback on what everyone else thinks of them, too. I recently introduced her to my family and I guess it went well.
Of course what really matters in this situation is what I think of them. But I do worry if I introduced her to some of my friends they'd say to themselves,"Why is he with her?" Or maybe they would get it.
It could be that your friend really isn't trying to keep it secret from you, but they just aren't ready to make that information public. Usually it has less to do with you (why should you be the priority in their relationship, anyway?) and more to do with them.
Especially considering that your friend just met their new partner, they are probably trying to process things and decide how official the relationship is. I wouldn't take it personally.