The other girl
ok so i started a new college around 5 months ago, and there was this boy i never really paid attention to , my friend was always telling me i should talk to him because i was single or whatever and he looked good. i didnt pay no mind until one day me and him got paired up to do a project and we talked. after that i added him on fb and saw he had recently broken up with some girl he was with me and him started talking on the phone and texting just as friends until one day he asked if i wanted to hang out with him i was down so we hung out that night in his house big (mistake)...and we started making out and ended up having sex i thought nothing big of it because we are both grown me 20 him 24... i did feel kind of bad because that is not tghe impression i wanted this guy to have of me , im not that type of girl but whatever it kept on happening because as wrong as it feels to have sex out of a relationship their is som ething about him that just feels so right! we were at it for atleast 2 weeks until he told me he was back with his girl i respected that so i left him alone , but he kept looking for me and callikng me. ever sinced his been back with this girl me and him have still been messing around to the point that idk if im inlust or inlove... i cant stop thinking about him and i get soooo jealous when his with her ... i know i have to stop because its not fair to her or to me... ive never been the other girl ive always been the only girl and i know this is wrong but i cant stop!!! i feel like i want this guy! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
see you should just ask the guy very straight forward if he loves you are if there is more to your relationship than just sex. if he has no feelings for you, then i would say you should really take matters in your own hands and stop being physical with him. you need to sort out your priorities and act accordingly. if he wants to be with the other girl,then look around dear and you will find so many guys better than him. its just that you have to give a chance to them and yourself..
wish you luck and happiness..