i have this cousin of mine who has come down 4 work & has been staying with me for 4 years now.
Up till recently i haven't hand any problems with her.
It all started when we had a major misunderstanding between us which we just recently cleared & went back to normal or at least that's what i thought.
she told me that she doesn't talk much , she likes having her space & all.
That's fine with me cause even i am the same.
but that doesn't mean that she doesn't talk to me at all.
What i mean is that she wont initiate an conversation with me.
She will talk to me yes. But only when i start / initiate.
It's always me who has to do so.
she is only like this with me.
as with my parents she will initiate a conversation on her own.
its only with me that she don't initiate a conversation.
I know that she loves me like a bro , cares for me ,etc.
But i don't know...at times it just hurts so much....at times i feel that she is just doing a big show.
I am frustrated & angry but mainly frustrated cause before she used to initiate conversations with me.
I want things to be like before.
1. Why is she acting like this with me ??
2. Should i just ignore her ??
i don't understand i though we were clear.
but its happening again.....its like an hydra....you take one head off 2 others will grow.
3. Why the hell me why can't i be in peace ??
4. Is it only happening to me or even you have gone through this ??
5. She told me if i have a problem with her i should talk to her directly but i don't. why is that ??
Its no use talking to my parents about it or even my other sisters they think its not that serious or anything.
now don say that i should take it easy or that i am overacting or that i am in love with her or anything like that cause i know i am not.
I only want things to be like before.
pls do help.
& plz do reply with the corresponding numbers to my questions.
this is a serious matter....don't joke about it.
i'd give an arm & a leg for things to be like before.
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