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My logic says no, but my heart...

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Hello there. I would like to share my story and if possible, take some advice from you. It's been more than a year that I am single, after a very bad break up. My ex boyfriend left me one week before we travel together on a big trip we had organised.I was crashed but I really tried to overcome the situation. Unfortunatelly I went under the state of depression, as I had some problems with my studies too. This period I am doing a master study and I try to travel as much as possible to open my horizons and clear my mind. In on of my last trips, I met somebody and we spent 3 days together. It was such a big surprise for me, cause finally after one year I liked somebody again. When I came back home I started thinking about this guy. He started having contact with me through the phone and the internet and now we contact every single day. Of course this has added a big smile on my face, but I know that there is no future with this person. He broke up too one year ago and told me that he just wants to live his life, no commitment, no relationship, no nothing. I am still in doubt too about commitment but I really like the guy and day after day I miss him. He has finished with his studies and now he is looking for a job in his country but I still need one year of studies. The thing is that my studies send me to the country next to his, so I planned my christmas to be there and he got really excited. He wants to be with me on the holidays, spend some days together, sleep at his place etc.I am really happy and excited too, as we talk every single day, exchange ideas,thoughts, dreams about our future...But I am afraid that I am gonna fall in love with him....and then what?

My logic says no, but my heart...

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You can't stop yourself from falling in love. I'm sorry, but when Love happens, it happens!

If you do end up falling in love with this man and he loves you too, then congratulations, but if you fall in love with him and he feels nothing, then move on. Yesh, it's not easy like how it sounds, but if you continue to stay at the same place, then you will never get anywhere in life.

I hope things go well with you two. :)

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