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Ok so i live in georgia and me and my boyfriend are together..we have known each other for a long time and we love each other.Im originally from New Jersey and I plan to move back after graduating but he doesn't want me to go.I have half of my family there and Im not happy in georgia.He feels as if I should stay and has told me not to go.He is graduating a year after me and I explained to him that my love is strong enough to defer for a year to wait for him.He feels as if that would be him holding me back but I want to go with him.I love my boyfriend and I want him in my future but I hate living in Georgia.There's nothing for me and I only moved here to be with my mother and grandmother but that was 5 years ago.They dont need me and by the time im ready to leave it'll be 7 years i've lived here.I don't want to stay and I feel as if i do stay I'll end up unhappy.I don't want to lose him but I don't wnt to stay here either.What should I do?

To move or not to move

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Go along with the 1 year wait for him to finish school. You both love each other, so in the long run it will be worth it. What if you just go up to New Jersey for a visit with your family for like a week? The go back to Georgia to be with him until he finishes school? Then you can both go to New Jersey together. In the meantime while you are in Georgia, maybe you could find a hobby or something fun to you to do down there? I hope this helps and that all goes well! Best of luck to you both! :)

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