It's getting too much!
I have married 6 years ago and have a kid. My father-in-law has died on November 2012.Since then, my husband seems to get more focus on his family, including his sisters and brother. He just ignore his responsibility toward me and his own daughter. I feel very alone and i had tried to have a talk with him regarding this situation but he always get excuses in avoiding this problem.His sister always took advantage on him, trying to get attention from him..and makes me feels annoying with her attitude. She had already married and had a kid too. Why she want to make our relationship becomes more difficult and unsolved?i really don't understand and very disappointed with my husband. Sometimes i feel i enjoy live alone without husband. He was only give me a problem. I had a big responsibility in my work and have to take care my kid alone. He never help me and never show his love to me since then. I really depressed and feel very lonely in this world. Someone please help me. I had tried to shut up when he ignore me for a long time, never care about our kids, never done his responsibility toward us include expenses for eat and clothes. i had to struggle for my own life.
I don't know if you have ever lossed a loved one. It's only been a couple of months. Until you suffer a loss like that, it's hard to relate. He mt not be handling it the best way possible, but it's for better for worse and he's clearly hurting and feels a big responsibility rest on his shoulder at this present time. Go see some one, or better you both go see someone but not put blame or point fingers. Suggest it as away to help you better empathize and better support and for you both better heal as a unit through this tough time. He's hurting and something else is going on. If this was a year down the road and he has distanced himself from you then I'd say take a step back. But it's only been a few months. He just lost a father.If you are feeling depressed, how do you think he must feel.