Should I wait for the girl of my dreams?
I have been in a short, long distance relationship with someone who I have fallen very much in love with. We recently broke up because she felt the distance combined with her job stress, her family stress (they live in another country), I moved to quickly in the relationship and some feelings for a friend of hers was too much for her to handle. I am broken hearted about this and have decided that I will wait this out and see what happens between us. I have made my feelings known to her and she said they made her happy. However this morning she called in sick to work and said she didn't sleep well and is nauseous. Sounds like she's maybe broken up about what to do with me and I'm really worried about that. I really believe that this woman is someone I could spend many years with and I would very much like to see that happen. I am giving her space and time to live her life, but it is impossible for me to move on right now. Am I making the right choice? I don't believe that my love for her was only an infatuation and I have plenty of experience in other relationships. Is it wrong of me to try and find out if I really have found the girl of my dreams or and I just being obsessive and creepy?
i think if you want to know what path to take .Why dont you talk to her as a human ,and give her the option of telling you her real feelings.Yes it maybe hard to start the convo off ,but be humble and polite about it .And tell her that you have feeling aswell ,and you cant play the guessing game about your future .If someone gave me the option ....i think i would say what i felt aswell.
I don't really see the problem. What do you really mean by "waiting for her"? She is living her life. You live yours. Then she'll be back and you will contact her then. If she's the one who broke up with you I don't really see that you have to make any decision.