I had met a guy on Facebook through a mutual friend of mine. i got along pretty well with him and so did this mutual friend who was my classmate in school and had met him online too. This girl and me had been friends in school too.
He used to chat with both of us.
He asked both of us for our phone numbers.
He even met each of us separately. ( both of us never knew he met the other)
I used to like him and he made it quite evident that he liked me too. He used to say he was confused. I always asked him confused about what. But he never said anything
In the month of aug i finally confessed my feelings to him.
He said he felt the same and we started dating. He told me to keep this relationship a secret as he did not wish to make it public.i agreed.
But two months later he said he lost feelings for me.
I was pretty hurt n angry and he pushed me to the limit where i just cursed him a lot.
He blocked me after that.
Due to some misunderstanding he felt i was instigating our mutual friend against him. Such that when i apologized he asked me to fuck off for cursing nd talking against him and he just took it that i was pretending.
I told my friend about our relationship. And she tells me she had been dating him since April! She refused to believe my story. And he,just to take revenge from me for his misunderstanding that i was instigating people against him told her that i had told him that she was dating someone else.
My friend took this entire story as me trying to break their relationship just because he had rejected me and i wanted to get him.
She refused to believe that he had a relationship with me.
She refused to believe that he cheated both of us.
Infact i was blamed.
I feel so sick when i think about this. It hurts when i realize that he cheated me all along and just dumped me. I gave him so much importance but i never got that. He broke my trust Nd ability to trust people again.
He denied the entire relationship and is continuing with her. Plus he had told her to keep their relationship a secret too.
AK to be honest you had a lucky escape to find all of this out now .Your friend will just find out later thats all .....you told her ,what else can you do.And you have your pride dented slightly ...and i suppose abit of rejection (which no one likes).Give it time and your mind will be in a much better place.And give u a bit more eduacation on people .Turn this bad experience into a good lesson for your next encounter ....and i promise u will have thicker skin