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Do I have trust issues or worry too much?

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Relationship advice My husband and I have been married for 11 years and hav 4 kids with another on the way. We moved to a new town about a year ago and I wanted him to make friends with his coworkers . He told me that he didn't want to but he did. So one of his friends is a neighbor, lives a few houses down and his wife and I are friends too. They went on a fishing trip and also carpool to work now. I don't mind them hanging out and having a few beers but I would like to know what they are doing. I don't want to control him or want to know what he is doing every second. So last night he goes over to his friends to drink with another guy. Later I found out that they took off to ride go carts. it was late at night and I freaked out...not knowing how drunk they were and where they have gone. When he came home I was so mad. He asked why I was mad...I told him it was because he didn't tell me where they were going. I should have told him that I was scared and freaked out knowing that they were drinking and I wasn't sure how drunk they were. But he just kept saying that after 11 yrs a don't trust him and now he's not talking to me. I don't know what to say or do??? Help!!

Do I have trust issues or worry too much?

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I think you probably worry too much. But then he does sound as if he acts like a big kid, so maybe your anxious moments are understandable.

I think you might have to let him sulk himself out before he starts talking to you again.

Tell him if he does it again you'll ground him!

If he's got a sense of humour he might see the funny side ;-)

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