I am beginning to think my partner may be in love with my 18 year old daughter!
I have been with my partner for two and ahalf years now. I knew him before as friends for over 12 years. He had his problems and was a heroin addict for 15 years but became clean. He lost his flat and was homeless so being the good friend I am I offered him my spare room. We got on great, he couldn't do enough for me. I really enjoyed his company and became close, really close. I could feel the electricity between us and finally we sucombed to the situation and got together. I really hadn't though it all through and went head first into a train wreck. It came out that he wasn't clean and we began a whole nearly 2 year detox with me beside him all the way. He was abusive verbally and emotionally towards me and always blamed it on the detox. So I excepted this and spoke to his doctors who told me this kind of behaviour is normal under the circumstances. I'm an intelligent women, used to be a teacher I didn't see the emotional abuse happening at first. He would become really angry about stupid things or put me in situations where I had to choose between seeing friends and him. Things did improve slowly. He was still abit rocky at times and moody but nothing as bad as he used to be. I thought things were on the up. The one thing I have never heard him do is speak to my daughter in a bad way. He will do anything for her. At first I thought this way lovely, she has a good relationship with her dad but for my partner to be so fond of my kids was great for me as a mum. But about a year ago I began to feel that something wasn't quite right. Before I
I would watch the situation closely but not come outright and say it but it you do catch him with your daughter or something I would have your daughter live with her dad and help him get a job and and a place to stay then kick him out but that's me hope that helps