A couple of days after Valentine's day this year, I met a girl that has completely changed my life. I may have only known her for a couple of months, but when we are together, I am the happiest I have ever been in my entire life. That being said, she broke up with me a couple of days ago right before my finals when she was a bit drunk because she said she didn't want to break my heart. She had said that she was unhappy with the relationship only because I loved her so much. I told her that I never expected her to love me as quickly as I loved her, and I would wait as long as she needed. She told me she really wanted to stay friends and that I would always be a close friend to her, but she is confused about her feelings for me so she wanted some time to think. However, this weekend, we spent a lot of time hanging out together like we did when we did when we were together and she didn't push me away at all. We kissed and did things we only did when we were in a relationship together, but neither one of us regretted it. I asked her, "If you don't want to not be together, and I don't want us to not be together, why are we not together?" to which she replied, "... I don't know how to formulate my words right now." The only thing she told me about me that she needs me to change is that she wants me to "man up", which I'm assuming she means to be more assertive and less sensitive and over-analyzing of the little things in life. But I don't know what to do to make her happy, and I want her to be the happiest she can, even if it's not with me. I love her with all of my heart, and I love everything about her, the good and the bad. I just want her to smile again, and I don't know what I need to do!
well it seems to me like she still has feelings for you... it shows that you truly love her since you just want her to be happy whether ir be with or without you. All i could say is just give it time, she may be confused and tryingg to figure herself out and she may not want to hurt u in the process...had it happen to me
but in the end...if it was meant to be it will be...good luck