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Should I leave him?

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Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now, and we have been living together for 2 years. The problem I have is that he has been unable to hold down a job the entire time we've been together - sometimes through no fault of his own, but more often than not he could have taken steps to avoid dismissal. It really gets me down as I have been continuously in work since I finished uni, with just a month in between different jobs, and I am very hard working. My boyfriend lost his most recent job yesterday, and I am dispairing as I always end up having to support him financially every time, but I don't think I can afford to anymore! I find intentional unemployment a really unattractive quality in others, and I think it is because of this I have been cheating on him on and off for the last year. I feel awful for doing this as I love him very very much, but it is the only thing keeping me sane as it lets me escape. I really don't know what to do - I don't want to leave him as I still love him, but I don't want to be with just him either when I don't find him attractive anymore, but I also don't want to cheat on him anymore! What should I do? I feel torn in half :(

Should I leave him?

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Break up with him, you have already choice. Now you st need to do it. You obviously don't want to be with him if you have been cheating on him and you're not attracted anymore

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