Um.. Okay.. So, this guy and I started dating a little over a month ago. We have known eachother for four years previous to our dating. He is a little over a year younger than myself, but still very mature.He says I'm the only person he's ever dated who he felt very connected to and that he loves me.. So, I had sex with him Wednesday (I was a virgin and so was he) and now, he's acting strange.. Being distant.. I have to admit I'm a bit more protective and jealous over him than is absolutely necessary, so I could very well be overthinking the situation. Just from a guy's POV, do you think he was.. Is just in it for sex, but is too nice to say so, and is being distant so that I'll break up with him so that he won't have to break up with me? I really love the kid, but at the same time, if that's all he was after.. Well, I should get the heartbreak over with, right?
First time sex is always awkward afterward. Maybe he thinks he wasn't good in bead and and is distant do to embarrassment. There is also a plausibility something ells in his life just got complicated, for example a family problem or work. If you didn't tell him he was good in bead try letting him know discreetly. If that doesn't brake the distant's streak then ask him if there is anything in his life distracting him as politely as possible. He may just tell you what is going on. If he doesn't it may be something embarrassing. Though if he starts a fight over it then it is most likely that he was just after the sex.
Good luck, hope all turns out well.