im 17 & Recently i was forced to move to from the other side of the state. i broke up with my girlfriend before i left because we were having problems and i wish i never did.then i moved. we stayed really close and we would talk everyday and we would still tell each other we love each other and all the other cute talk that comes in a relationship . we had to keep our talking a secret though because my GF's mother didnt want us talking. this past week i saved up money and planned on driving 5 hrs to see her for the weekend after not seeing her for 4 months. I was really excited because i love this girl and knew that s was the only one ive ever wanted. She would tell me she loves me everyday and that she cant wait to be with me again and misses me and really wants us together again. On my drive down their this past week i call her because i heard news of hand another guy. When she answered i asked if she was talking to so-so and if its her boyfriend. She laughed and said yes as if it was nothing. she told me they have been for the last three weeks. i instantly just broke down saved up hundreds of dollars and finished school early and tried to give her everything to see her. She said she never ment what she was telling me and that i ruined her life and never made her happy and she was never going to tell me about the other guy and the other guy didn't know about me.she also told me that she was only saying that stuff as a friend even though she never told me that and mentioned everyday getting back together and having a long distance relationship & getting married next yr. she then just hung up and i turned around after being halfway their and went home haven't talked to her since. i still love this girl with everything i got and only want to be with her she was amazing to me and was their through problems and she was my best friend. I cant stop thinking about her and all i want is her back! is it wrong that i still want her and should i try and pursue her to get her back ? im so lost confused and hurt any advice would help.
Hello. I know what your going through. My best guy friend went through it a year ago. I would suggest that you try to focus on other topics. Try going into art or singing. It is hard but you can't circle your life around her. She doesn't want you around her so try and see if u guys can become friends again. If not (and i know its hard) try to move on. You deserve someone who is not going to treat you like this