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Relationship advice I have been seeing a man for about 3 years and we know what makes each other tick. I notice that on Friday's, it seems to be an issue of us getting together. I sent him a text message since he was at work during the earlier part of the afternoon on a Friday and asked if he was stopping by to see me after work. He exact reply was that he had to go home to get x-ray papers. He then said he had a doctor's appointment early in the morning and that if he stayed with me, he would have to get up early in the morning. He told he would call back when he got off from work, which is usually around 5:00 p.m. He never called, so I finally decided to call him around 9:30 that evening. His phone went straight to voicemail. When he finally called me back, it was around 11:30 p.m. He said he just left a restaurant with his coworkers. He said his cell phone died and that he had to use his coworker's charger to charge the phone. I do not believe it takes all day to charge a cell phone. So when I asked why he did not call me from his co-workers number, his answer was that he did not want to call me from a strange number. His coworkers are males, so I did not think it would be a big deal. I feel like he was hiding something, and want to break off the relationship since we have had trust issues before. Am I overreacting?

Did I overreact

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I believe if it happens once then I would give him the benefit of the doubt. Its also possible that he felt you would have been upset about the coworkers he was out with and it was all innocent. Its hard to trust when you feel someone is sneaking around and being deceitful. Sorry you are having a hard time.

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