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What you do when your own child betrays you

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Relationship advice with my first husband i was very close we bought 2 properties together , i knew my first husband would never betray me so i put both in his name we both were paying for it. Recently my ex died , i got 2 child with him, my kids they knew that i was paying for the house,i never hided anything from them, i would tell them very thing i did, me and my kids were very close but when the bank send us a letter saying that we have to refiance ,my older child got the probate . they decided that they will transfer both houses in there name but before they were saying that they will put it in my name and when i asked her why she did it, her reply was that this is my fathers and we are entitle for it not you, it broke my heart thinking that my own kids betrayed me, in her eyes she thinks she did nothing wrong , i met her recently n she said to me mum i did nothing wrong i claim what was mine.how i deal with this, its making me sick insde, i thought i knew my kids very well but i guess i didnt,i need some help to cope with this

What you do when your own child betrays you

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You should discuss your feelings with her and try to make her understand you payed on that house not her and she is trying to take it from you she is mot entitled to that property you are you worked for it if all else fails take legal action against her to keep what is yours your child didnt betray you she has a sence of demand and that the world owes her handouts and it doesnt

What you do when your own child betrays you

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Thanks Grey for the reply ,i did talk to her and she knew from the start that i was paying and helping her father but she said to me that she got legal advice and the her bank manager had advised her dont be stupid dont give it to your mother, you know the funny thing is when something happen to me , the kids would get the propety anyway but i dnt no why she is doing this now , she said yesterday that mum you just see this in your point of view but try to see in our point of view, i told her i cant becoz you took what was mine .she still says that she has done nothing wrong , it was my fault that i trusted my kids a lot and also for keeping in his name only,see i cant take her to court becoz after all she is my child and what kind of mother i would be and i cant live with that guilt, you now i will just think that i gave them their wedding present from me and her father, thats what i have been telling myself, other wise ill go insane but it hurts a lot , i cant trust any of my kids anymore she also said that mum you will forgive us oneday

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