HAS ANYBODY BEEN THROUGH THIS AND DOES ANYONE HAVE THE BEST POSSIBLE ADVICE FOR ME??? I AM IN NEED OF HELP
Look, I am a mum, and I can see from what you are telling me that this woman is trying to make you do better in life for her own selfish gain, but has got fed up of waiting for you to make money for her to spend.
Maybe she has done you a favour by not wishing to contact you until you do better. But if you are going to do better, don't do it for her. Do it for yourself. You sound to me as if you have allowed her to knock your confidence. No. Do what you can for yourself. That is not being selfish. That is being realistic. How can you give her what she wants if you haven't got it? But then again, if you have got it, why should you give it to her? She should be out there getting her own money - maybe that is what she is doing? Then when you both have enough, if you are still together, ok, but if not, then you will have some money put by to get your OWN place and do things on your OWN terms until you find the right woman - one that won't take you for a financial rollercoaster ride and then dump you when it's all gone. No you will find a woman who will share what she has with you as much as you will share what you have with her.
Good luck for your future.
I just want to say the women wants you to be on ur feet and that's good but rather than out of touch in that period ,it would be good to be in touch with her so ur love can help you to overcome any issue.
So just ask her why she wants u to not contact her.
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