My boyfriend has left me and I'm pregnant
Me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years and we have had a rocky relationship. he has cheated in the past. i recently discovered i was pregnant and he is bein really horrible. i think hes causing me that much stress so that i will loose my child. He said he doesnt want to be with me and i reallt hate him for it, even tho i still love him in a way. I dont know what to do, i feel like im loosing the plot. Im 3 and a half months pregnant and really want my child to have his dad, but i dont want him in my life, he des nothing but hurt me and put me down all the time. i cant take much more of it.
I think first of all sex is a curse. Iam a Muslim and i give u an advice not to do such type of sex, if u have done it God will forgive u if u sorry him with heart. So simple advice SEX IS CURSE.
Please do not listen to the last reply. Anything that is said with judgement and not love is just there own stuff!!
I am so sorry that you are in this pedicament. Many men are afraid when they first hear the news they are too become a Dad. Prehaps he just need time. If he really does not want to be with you anymore then you have to put your practical hat on and start focusing on how you are going to create a future with your baby and try and create a support network with friends and family. If your man wants to be the father to the child eventually you might think differently about him and wish to go it alone anyway. It does not matter whether you are pregnant or not he should treat you with respect and make you feel happy and support you. If he does no then do you really want to be with him. Remember you deserve more and children are the most precious gift and will be you for always. I wish you all the luck and love you deserve!!xx