I want back with my ex more than anything
Jolenee: I really want advice on how I can get my ex boyfriend back. I've honestly never put this much effort into a person before and I've never felt a connection like I do with him, i normally move on really quickly. before him i was in a 2 year relationship and got over it 3 days later, then i met him soon after. it has been almost 2 weeks since we broke up. I love him more than absolutely anything honestly. He made me so happy and he said I made him happy, he left randomly because he wanted to get his life on track and at first he said he didn't feel happy with me. Later on he said it wasn't that he wasn't happy but just not comfortable because of mistakes I made in the beginning that made him scared that I would hurt him, but I had never repeated those mistakes. There was a night I got really mean and he confessed to have lost some feelings for me but nowadays we talk as friends and when we see each other we act intimate and I can tell that he still wants to be with me but recently while texting it seems like he doesn't until he sees me, every time I ask about a second chance he says he doesn't know. He says he doesn't even know if he wants to be with me so I shouldn't get my hopes up but I've just been trying and trying and it just hurts so much. I want this more than anything but I don't know what to do.. I've been told to give him space but I'm afraid he'll lose all feelings all together, he's the kinda guy who thinks if you ignore him then you're gone forever. I honestly cannot comprehend how much I adore this man, I need advice so badly..
I have been in the same situation not too long ago, and I ended up finding someone else, who was far better than my ex. Once I started dating this new bf of mine, my ex said he was about to ask me back. Than my current bf said he didn't want me talking to him cuz my ex was a pathological liar....My suggestion is don't talk to him until the third time he calls you. He may start to think you are dating someone else. Than have him buy you dinner, but don't sleep with him yet. If he buys you dinner, it's a good sign. Play like you are no longer interested in him for about a month, and maybe he will start getting suspicious and will ask you back out. A friend of mine told me the same thing, but of course, I met a new guy so never got to follow all of her instructions.
Take some time away from him for a month or so or until you feel like those types of feelings for him are gone. Try to put your life back on track...meaning go do the things you want to do...don't let your feelings for him tie you down from enjoying life. Occupy your mind with other things, such as a game or some sport. If you still have feelings for him, I would stop being friends for awhile, at least until those feelings have vanished. Just a suggestion.